maternity photo shoot

Thanks Sarah Rush Photography!

my little goofball

didn't think I'd ever blog again, did you?

It has been a REALLY long time since I last blogged. I have thought about just skipping the lost time and starting fresh.  But I feel guilty about missing all of the time that I did and couldn't bring myself to do that.  So instead I'm going to try to play catch-up.  I've been working on it for a little while now and hope to bombard the blog with old posts in the next couple of weeks.  They may not be as interesting or thorough as they would have been if I'd done them sooner, but at least I'll have the memories all in one spot.  Oh, and I'm going to date them around when they actually happened, so if you're interested in reading them, you might have to look back to find them.  Enjoy!

caleb's new room!

We finally finished Caleb's new room...at least enough to move him in there.  We're still waiting on his dresser, which got damaged during shipping and had to be reordered.  We haven't put up the wall decals because it's harder to find time to do that now that he's moved in there already.  And I'd like to get a new lamp.  Anyway, here's a photo of its current state.  I'll try to post more once it's all done.

Caleb has done very well transitioning to sleeping in his new bed at night.  Nap time is an entirely different story.  One that I'd rather not go into at the moment.  Hopefully in the next couple of months, he will be able to settle back into a routine now that we've made it through all of the big changes in the past few months.  Then we'll see what happens when the next big change comes along...

fall fun 2011

Last fall, I remember mourning the summer...not wanting it to end because I hadn't gotten to enjoy enough of the fun stuff that summer brings.  But this year has been different.  I've been loving fall!  I think that part of the reason is that we're actually getting a decent fall this year.  Sometimes around here it seems like summer lingers and then goes straight to winter.  But not this year.  I've been really enjoying the fall weather and the beautiful trees.

I've also been aware that the time I have left when it's just Caleb and me on the weekdays is running low.  So we've been trying to fit in some fun things before it gets more complicated to do them.

At the end of September, we drove up to Longmont and went to Sunflower Farm.  It's a super fun place for kids with all sorts of things to do like play in tree forts, feed animals, climb on tractors, swing on tire swings, play in sandboxes, ride bikes, and lots more!  I have too many fun photos from the couple of hours we spent there to fit in a collage so here's a little slideshow...

A couple of weeks ago, we went to the Children's Museum.  Unfortunately, I didn't have my camera with me because I really wanted it when Caleb was all decked out in firefighter gear and driving the fire engine.

Just today, we went to the Denver Zoo.  Caleb had such a blast with his buddy Zeb.  And I remembered the camera...

mini golf

After we got back from Costa Rica, we thought it would be nice to do something special with Caleb.  So we took him to play mini golf for the first time.  He loved it!  Here's my little golfer in action...

 

And here's how he felt about leaving...

Costa Rica trip

Jason and I have taken anniversary trips each year since we got married.  Usually by ourselves, although we did bring Caleb with us the year he was born since he was only a few months old.  Most of them have just been long weekends and for the first three trips, we stayed in CO.  For our fourth anniversary, we ventured out of the state and went to Taos, New Mexico.  But we decided that maybe every five years, we could try to do something bigger.  So this year, we actually left the country (for the first time together) and went to Costa Rica!

We were gone for a full week (including travel days).  It was the longest we'd ever been away from Caleb.  Jason's parents kindly took on the somewhat daunting task of watching him the entire time we were gone.  He had a great time with them, and we enjoyed the peace and quiet.  We missed him, of course, but also appreciated the freedom of traveling just the two of us.  And I slept like a rock most of the trip, not having to worry about whether he was going to need me in the middle of the night.

We had an amazing time.  We stayed at a really nice boutique hotel in Manuel Antonio.  The hotel was located on its own nature reserve so we were surrounded by rainforest, but not a far drive from the beach.  We got to go to the nearby National Park, spend some time at the beach, eat delicious food, go on a mangrove boat tour, and just relax at the hotel.  Jason took LOTS of pictures.  We tried to pare them down, but there are still quite a few.  Enjoy!

caleb's first day of preschool

Caleb started preschool at the end of August.  The week before, we went to an orientation at his school and he liked it so much that he kept asking when he was going to get to go back.  So the morning of his first day, he was pretty excited.  And, except for one short phase, he's never had much trouble with us leaving him so I wasn't too worried about how he'd do.

What I wasn't expecting was that I would get emotional about it myself!  I've never really been the type to mourn each passing milestone and wish my kid would stay a certain age forever.  But I have to admit that when I was packing his lunch the night before his first day of school, it was a little tough.  Granted, I'm pregnant...so perhaps I can chalk up some of my emotion to that.  But really I just think it was more difficult for me than I expected it to be.

I was a little sad dropping him off on his first day, but once I got involved in doing the things I planned on getting done, I definitely enjoyed the time to myself.  And when I picked Caleb up four hours later, he seemed to have had a great time.  Here are a few pictures of our big boy ready to embark on a new adventure!

CT trip

In August, we took a family trip to CT to visit my family and friends there.  Since my parents are living in NC now, we don't make it to CT as often so it had been almost two years since our last visit!  It was wonderful to be able to spend a little time catching up with relatives and friends.  Some of them hadn't met Caleb at all, and many others hadn't seen him since he was about 14 months.  But it didn't bother him one bit...he just tried to get everyone he met to play with him.

We were able to plan the trip so that I could be at a bridal shower for a good friend of mine who is getting married in October.  So I even got to see more of my friends than I otherwise would have.  And we got to get all of our kiddos together for the first time...

We also got to spend some time with my dad's side of the family and see my grandmother for the first time in almost two years.  And then we got to see everyone on my mom's side of the family.  Caleb had lots of fun with my aunts and uncles and cousins and his second cousins.  And we really enjoyed getting to visit with everyone.  It was a week well spent!

Here's a slideshow of family pics (they are mostly of my mom's side...apparently I mostly took pictures of kids):

It's a...

GIRL!!!  When I was pregnant with Caleb, we didn't find out in advance that we were having a boy.  I really liked not finding out.  But for some reason I felt differently this time.  I was more curious.  The first time around, it was just Jason and I having a baby.  It didn't really matter at all if it was going to be a boy or a girl.  This time, it seems different.  It isn't just the two of us anymore.  Now we are adding to our family.  I wanted to know if Caleb was going to have a little brother or a little sister.

And I'll admit, the idea of another boy was a bit more appealing to me.  Maybe it's mostly because I feel like I've learned the ropes with boys a bit.  I can do boy.  Now I have to learn how to do girl too.  Maybe it's because I thought it would be fun for Caleb to have a little brother.  Maybe it's partly because I'm not really a huge fan of pink or of baby girl clothes in general.  I'm the rare breed that usually finds baby boy clothes cuter.  And girl names are so much harder for us to figure out than boy names.  When Caleb was born, we had two boy names to choose from and no girl names.  Good thing he was a boy!

Despite all of that, I'm sure I'll love having a girl.  I know that once she's here and as she grows, I will never have wanted it any other way.  And Jason is definitely excited.  Which is one of the biggest reasons I look forward to a girl...I'm excited to watch Jason be a daddy to a girl.

I was also excited to tell my parents.  My dad in particular has been pushing for a granddaughter ever since I was pregnant with Caleb.  He already had one grandson, so it was time for a granddaughter, right?  Since then he's gotten two more grandsons instead.  So it was fun to tell my parents that I had their first granddaughter in my belly!

Most of the time when I tell people that I'm having a girl, their response is something along the lines of, "Awww...how nice...one of each!"  I find that response kind of funny.  Is it part of the American Dream or something?  Two kids...one of each gender?  I'm sure that some just know that being able to experience both sons and daughters is a special thing.  And I feel blessed to be able to have that experience.  Plus I hear that baby girls tend to be easier...it's the teenage years that are harder.  I could definitely deal with easier at the start...it's the down-the-road part that makes me a little nervous!  But it's probably a little early to be thinking about that...

mom and dad's visit

In July, my parents came out for a visit!  It was wonderful to have them and so nice that they got to spend some time with Caleb while he's at the fun age that he is.  They even got to be here for his third birthday!

While they were here, we went to the Cheyenne Mountain Zoo, and Caleb had a blast feeding the giraffes and the birds, and riding the train and the carousel.

We also took a drive to the mountains and spent half a day up at Winter Park, where Caleb got his face painted for the first time!

We celebrated Caleb's birthday, and the next day we went to a Rockies game.  It was unbearably hot, but we still had a good time.

Their visits are always a blast.  Can't wait for the next one!!

caleb's 3rd birthday party

Caleb's birthday party was on his actual birthday this year since it fell on a Saturday.  We planned on having it at a park, and had to make a last-minute switch to a different park several days before.  It was a little unnerving trying to figure out where to have it on such short notice, but it turned out to be perfect!!  Caleb had chosen Thomas the Tank Engine as the theme of his party, and the park we ended up at has a miniature train that you can ride!

The night before his birthday, my parents, husband and I were busy assembling the cupcake train.  I had found the idea online and was excited about it.  I made the cupcakes and frosting from scratch so thankfully those were already done and we just had to frost them and put everything together.  The finished product...

At the party the next day, the cupcake train was the topic of deep conversation among the kiddos.

 We got to ride on the miniature train...

and the conductor even had everyone on the train sing "Happy Birthday" to Caleb!

We'd gotten train whistles as favors for all of the kids at the party, which I'm sure was appreciated by the other people on our train ride.

 After some lunch, Caleb opened his gifts.  I love his expressions in these photos...

And then he finally got to eat the cupcake that he'd had his eye on all day...

I was so glad that everything worked out so well.  A fun party for a fun three-year-old!

caleb turns three!

Dear Caleb,

On July 16th, you turned three years old.  Here's a bit of what you're up to these days...

For months, when people have asked how old you are, you've been saying, "I'm two! On my next birthday, I'll be THREE! Then you'd tell them that your birthday was on July 16th. You like to keep people fully informed. Sometimes, when you leave the room to go throw something out, you say, "I'll be right back. You have nothing to worry about." That is usually true. It's the times when you say, "Mama, don't look at me," or "Mama, don't come in here," that I know I have to worry. You don't give me much credit, but I'm clever enough to know that whenever you say that, I should look or come in immediately and see what you're up to.

You tend to be very precise about things. You like using the word "actually," and it's pretty cute when you do. Other things you say a lot:

"Yeah...sure!"

"Good job!"

"You're right!"

You can be rather encouraging for a three-year-old.

You still like to play sports of all kinds.  You like to read books and you like to dance.  You like playing instruments too...especially the drums.

To be honest, I'm still working on this post months after you turned three, and it's tough to separate what you were up to then from what you're up to now.  Not long after your third birthday, you developed a sudden interest in sword fighting.  It seemed like an overnight transition.  Now I have to look out for what you're choosing to use as a sword and how.  You like to count and can count up to 100 with a little help.  I don't think it'll be long before you're doing it all by yourself! 

For a while after your birthday when people asked you how old you were, you would say, "I just turned THREE!"  Now you just tell them that you're three.  I guess three is old news now.  I never used to wish that you would stay a certain age or stop growing up so quickly.  I think that might be starting to change.  

You love your dada and your time with him is often filled with fun and laughter.  But for the most part, you're still a mama's boy.  You also still like to snuggle us, and I treasure your sweet snuggles.  I am so blessed to be your mama, my sweet angel.  I love you with all my heart!

the next fraze addition...

due December 10th!

Castlewood Canyon

We have a state park pass that is about to expire so we decided to head to a nearby state park on Saturday to take advantage of it while we can.  Just wanted to post a few pics from our adventures...